Monday, November 2, 2009

when good friends go...

There’s been a handful of times when I’ve had to cut people off intentionally for one reason or another...... Most of the time relationships fade naturally, people aren’t necessarily in your “friend” category anymore, but there’s no weirdness behind it either and you have good feelings toward them.... But then there’s times where you have to decide to cut off with people on purpose....It’s pretty easy to break-up with a casual friend.... Breaking-up with a good friend is much harder.... You invested a lot of time and effort into this person.... They know things about you that not everyone knows.... and you genuinely feel like something would be missing without this person in your life.....People change and sometimes it’s not for the better..... We all go through highs and lows and part of having good friends is being there for each other..... You accept your friends when they miserable and you try to help them and be there as you would want them to be there for you..... But sometimes people can be mean and there are just some things in friendship that are unacceptable..... As much as most of us wish we could exist in peace with the people in our lives, there will always be individuals we dislike..... Some simply rub us the wrong way while others do it deliberately....Hopefully no really good friends ever go out of my life...

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  1. Hmmm...interesting!!I might sound reallly very philosophical, but I believe that your friendship should be unconditional...and there should not be any expectations...because, when they are not met...it hurts the most and a point comes when we start withdrawing, which is a negative action and brings lots of negative thoughts and outcome....and at the same time your friend starts reciprocating them(very obvious reaction/characteristic of human nature) and it forms a vicious circle.

    Happiness is like a butterfly...the more you try and chase it...the farther it will fly from you...just ignore it...and it will come sit on your lap:)and if it doesn't then this butterfly was meant for some other flower:)but you are still feeling happy for it as you have been doing till now!!! Point is you are HAPPY and not HURT.

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