when you are living away from home... far far away from home... and something bad happens back home... it leaves u feeling so helpless.... not to be able to help or offer comfort or do anything.... its scary not knowing and not being able to know.....a little information is a dangerous thing....last week my dad got a mild heart attack..disaster at home is more of a disaster than anything much worse...it shakes u.... it shakes u out of your comfort zone!