Thursday, December 10, 2009

what a couple of days!!!...Itz been 4 days now since I have come for my sis wedding to Mumbai...everyday i s so exciting with shopping and all....But I miss my husband...it is amazing how i had started taking him granted having him around, but today I am missing Assad terribly..I am here blogging instead of going to bed...I want to talk to him longer than few minutes here and there instead of worrying about my moile bills...I want to share every details of my day with him..I stay busy and look forward to smallest things to make myself forget that i miss him...but i still do miss him!...i want to hold his hand wen he comes back from office..i want to see him playing with Celmira even after a tiring day for him....How much i miss my routine life back home!!! Plain and simple i am missing him...how much i wish he could come with us...because waiting is how i love him right now..!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

“Criticism is an indirect form of self-boasting”
- Emmet Fox

Criticising others is a tricky business because people are rarely receptive to criticism.... However, there are ways to point out mistakes to others rather than constantly criticizing of making fun of others... But, whilst it can be important to point out the mistakes of others...., it is equally important that we avoid becoming a full time critic....!!! If we spend all our energy on judging and criticising others we will just become a negative person and do nothing to effect real change.some people are apt to criticise unnecessarily.... It is as if we are drawn to the faults of others and forget the good things they do.... It is also important to avoid feeling responsible for the way others lead their lives...!

Why it is good to avoid criticising others?

- When we criticise others, we often have the same fault in our own nature.

- Criticising others very rarely inspires them to change.

- Citicising about others brings out the worst in ourself. It gives us a negative frame of mind

Criticising others, gives us a sense of pride and superiority.

I know a lot of people who want to feel superior to other people by making fun of others or critising...That doesn’t make sense to me!!!

Well...I am out on a vaccation to Mumbai for a month....So C ya sooon....